choices Archives – Biliz Maharjan https://bilizmaharjan.com/tag/choices/ Writer, Creator, & Entrepreneur Sun, 16 Jun 2024 04:27:13 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 https://bilizmaharjan.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/BMLOGO-150x150.jpg choices Archives – Biliz Maharjan https://bilizmaharjan.com/tag/choices/ 32 32 The Power of “Choice” And Understanding You Are In Control https://bilizmaharjan.com/the-power-of-choice-and-understanding-you-are-in-control/ https://bilizmaharjan.com/the-power-of-choice-and-understanding-you-are-in-control/#respond Sun, 16 Jun 2024 04:23:27 +0000 https://bilizmaharjan.com/?p=6958 Every moment, we are choosing something. Waking up, getting dressed, having breakfast, kissing your spouse, and working at your job are all your choices. Understand that everything that happens to or will happen to you is your choice. You impact everything that happens to you unless it’s something out of your control, like the weather […]

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Every moment, we are choosing something. Waking up, getting dressed, having breakfast, kissing your spouse, and working at your job are all your choices.

Understand that everything that happens to or will happen to you is your choice.

You impact everything that happens to you unless it’s something out of your control, like the weather or natural calamities. In that case, there’s nothing you or anyone can do about it.

The power of choice works both ways. It can serve you for good or create misery in your life. For example, choosing to work at a horrible job will have a negative impact. Finding another that isn’t as miserable as your current one would be best. You have a choice. Similarly, starting the business you have always wanted will help you serve people and earn money. You can choose to start it now.

Often, people think they are not in control because they have been programmed that way since childhood. Their parents and school have only shown them a straightforward path to living life.

  • Work hard to earn money.
  • Get married and settle down with kids.
  • Do well in school to succeed.

These are some basic examples of our programming.

Parents and teachers should have taught us the power of choice and how it helps us do more in life.

Some people understand they do not have to settle for these ideas. They know they can do more than what they have been told.

If you are stuck in your old program, it’s high time to re-think it.

Your actions and feelings reflect your choices. You can choose how to act and feel about a situation.

Remember, it’s not what happens but how you respond to it that matters.

You have the power to choose your response. For example, if a narcissist is trying to provoke you and get you to react a certain way, you have the power to respond subtly and not get affected by their behavior. You can remain calm and exercise your power.

Your thoughts, actions, and emotions create your reality. And you are in control of them. Again, you can choose how you think, act, and feel. Life doesn’t just happen to you. You create it whether you want it or not. So, why not be conscious about your choices and build your reality how you want?

Get a piece of paper and write what you want. You can choose anything that feels right. Don’t limit yourself. You can achieve anything if you set your intention and consciously act towards it.

Make a list of things you want, and then write the choices you can make to achieve them. What thoughts, actions, and feelings will help you achieve those things?

Close your eyes and imagine yourself taking action and exercising the power of choice. How do you feel? The image you see results from making the right choices to achieve your goals.

Remember, you are in control. You can choose to be happy, work towards your goals, and take responsibility for your life.

Everything happens to you because of the choices you make.

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]]> Even the most minor decisions can severely impact your life. They might not be visible today or tomorrow, but you will notice them in the long run.

For example, if you choose to go to the gym and exercise today, nothing changes tomorrow. Your physical appearance will remain the same. You go to the gym the next day; still, nothing changes. It is over a specific time that you will start seeing the results. But you have to be consistent with it.

Understand that your choices today are significant for a better tomorrow. For instance, watching Netflix or playing video games all day is your choice today. But it will impact you tomorrow. Instead of doing that, you could have gotten a job and given more attention to your diet and exercise.

No matter what you do, where you live, and who you are with, you are constantly making choices in life. These choices can be related to your health, finance, career, or relationships.

It is not easy to always make good choices. Sometimes, even the most intelligent people fail to see what is right for them and their future.

Making a choice is a conscious decision. For that, you need self-awareness. For example, when you see cheesecake in a bakery, you want to eat it. But eating it will affect your health. Now, you decide if you wish to treat your mouth with delicious cheesecakes or have self-control and think about its impact on your health.

Similarly, your choice to go to college or start a business will impact your career. If you go to college, you will have to give your time and spend a large sum of money. But, if you start a business (where you can lose money too), you will gain more experience whether you succeed or fail at it.

To make good choices, you need to set your priorities straight. You need to understand what you want in every area of your life—health, finances, relationships, and career. It is easier said than done. But, once you have a distinct idea about your desires, you can make everyday choices that will take you closer to them.

You need a few things for that. Firstly, self-awareness is crucial. You must be aware of your surroundings to make wise choices. Secondly, you need to think before you act or speak. Think about the life impacts of doing or saying it. Lastly, you can seek advice from trusted sources. They can be your friends, family, mentor, or someone else.

Make your choices wisely. What you choose today will impact your tomorrow. Even the most minor decisions can extensively impact your life. Set your priorities straight and start living your everyday life accordingly.

Choices make you what you are. Your present is a result of your past decisions. Think about that before you make any decision today.

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